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CHRISTIAN SINGLES: A GREAT PROFILE WILL PUT YOU IN A CLASS BY YOURSELF!

By Katherine Tapani

We are delighted to introduce you to our Christian Dating and Relationships Coach, Katherine Tapani, who will lead you through your first anxious attempts at writing a Personals ad. It will be designed to bring Christian singles back to it again and again, hoping that you will be The One! She will be sure that you connect with those singles in a warm and friendly way, and her sure hand will guide you through all the steps you will take in meeting and marrying the one who will bless your life with love and sweet companionship.

This Christian dating advice will help you avoid the most common mistakes found in the profiles of hundreds of Lonely Hearts desiring to find their perfect match, a wonderful mate for life. We also have A SECRET INGREDIENT in our recipe for meeting and marrying your ideal Christian man or Christian woman. This will be revealed later, when you can fully appreciate what a magnificent benefit you have in online Christian dating, far beyond anything other online dating hopefuls have. So stay tuned!

But first, Christian singles; I perceive there are a few of you who absolutely dread writing about yourself. Well, more than a few, and you dear hearts know who you are! So let’s not beat around the bush. Your personals profile is too important to throw a few sentences together and hope it hits your target. Right now I am going to deputize you as top gun, to blow your competition clean out of town. And you will need another impressive title to get the job done, sales person extraordinaire. And you ask, why will I need the skills of a seasoned sales rep? Because you will be selling the most wonderful product, YOURSELF! Of course I will be at your side to encourage you, and you will prove yourself very adept in the art of putting your best foot forward, in emphasizing the positive, and not paving your road to romance and marriage with potholes. These potholes may include hideous renditions of unrequited love, or love gone as sour as old buttermilk. The love relationships you’ve suffered in the past which turned out to be one-sided should be relegated to your own dust bin of history. Today is a new day, Christian singles! Besides, if you seem too needy, and cry over those who have hurt you and used you in the past, you are actually rolling out the red carpet to invite every parasite who uses others and then tosses them aside. They will see an easy mark in you! (Yes, these sponges and bloodsuckers can be male or female, and you must have your antenna up to avoid such disasters coming your way.) But we will provide another kind of profile so you can spot these people right away… we may as well call it The Bloodsucker Profile. If you have wound up with one or more before, now is the time to find a QUALITY person, not another loser. Don’t believe the fantasy that you can change losers, but do pray that God will save their souls and change them from within. Don’t waste your time waiting for that hog’s ear to turn into a silk purse! The great benefit of meeting and dating new Christian singles online is that there are virtually millions of them and new ones join every day, so you can be very selective! Hold out for your own special Christian soul mate who is reliable and trustworthy.

TIPS FOR WRITING A CHRISTIAN SINGLE’S PROFILE THAT WILL GET ATTENTION:

First let’s give you a broad overview of this dating site’s personal profile (a.k.a. Essay) rules, restrictions, and many benefits. Afterward we will build your confidence further with examples and tons of fresh ideas to make your online dating profile unforgettable. Read on for important information about your profile:

The number of replies you get will depend greatly on the quality of your profile. Here are some helpful tips; Upload a photograph. People like to see who they are writing to, and, as a result, profiles with photographs get up to 10 times the clicks as those that don’t have a photograph. You can either upload a photo from a digital camera or a scanner. If you don’t have a scanner, we can do it for you (for a nominal fee). For a link to the section called “How do I upload photos” click our ad on this page and then click on HELP at the top of the page. Then click on “Tips to remember when create a profile” and look for “how do I upload photos”. Watch for more detailed information about your photo, and special help for Christian men and Christian women to produce a picture that draws that man or woman of your dreams to gaze into your eyes, with stars in their eyes! They will not be able to resist the magnetic appeal of the window to your soul, your expressive and soulful eyes.